Lately, I’ve been sharing my experiences using AI as a mom on social media. But after posting a reel about creating a meal plan with a popular AI tool, a friend’s DM caught me off guard. She asked if I felt like using AI was cheating, and while my initial response was a quick “no,” her question stuck with me. I found myself unexpectedly hesitating to use AI over the next week, despite having relied on it daily for months and seeing its benefits firsthand. Rather than letting doubts creep in, I decided to explore the root of this concern: why might moms perceive using AI as cheating? Let’s dive into what I discovered.

The Motherhood Juggling Act

As mothers, we wear many hats – managing kids’ schedules, meal planning, organizing, and seeking precious me-time. With artificial intelligence (AI) transforming our lives, a question arises: Is using AI as a mom considered cheating?

Redefining Cheating

Let’s clarify what “cheating” means. Typically, it implies gaining an unfair advantage by breaking rules. But what are the rules of motherhood? For generations, we’ve used tools and hacks to. make life manageable, from meal prep services to babysitters and grocery delivery apps. AI is the next logical step.

Using AI isn’t about cutting corners; it’s about resourcefulness.

AI: A Tool, Not a Replacement

AI won’t parent for you (wouldn’t that be something!), but it does lightens the mental load. It can:

• Generate meal plans tailored to your family’s needs
• Organize calendars and send reminders
• Assist with tasks that consume time but not emotional energy

AI frees you to focus on what matters – being present with your kids and enjoying family life.

The Misconception of Cheating

If using AI is cheating, what about other tech tools like phone reminders or smart home assistants? Moms have always adapted; AI is just another tool.

We live in a world where efficiency is valued. Using AI allows us to be more efficient, which translate into more time with our families, more time for self-care, and more flexibility in our daily lives. The real “cheat” is neglecting available resources to simplify life.

Empowering, Not Replacing

Some moms might feel that relying on AI means they’re not “doing enough”. But thing about this: By embracing AI, you’re not only keeping up with the times but also teaching your kids how to be adaptable, tech-savvy, and resourceful themselves. You’re showing them that it’s ok to leverage tools to better manage life’s demands.

Using AI doesn’t mean you’re not doing enough. It means you’re adapting, adjusting, and growing with the world around you.

The Future of Motherhood and AI

As AI evolves, its applications for busy moms will expand. From meal planning to automating household tasks, AI is here to support – not replace – mothers.

As we navigate this exciting new territory, I’m committed to helping moms harness the power of AI in their daily lives. That’s why I created the Modern Motherhood Meets AI Facebook group – a community dedicated to exploring the intersection of motherhood and artificial intelligence. This group is a space for moms to connect with others who are using, or want to use, AI to save time and stress less. Members will get exclusive access to:

• Tips and tricks for maximizing AI’s potential in everyday life
• Expert advice from AI professionals and experienced mom-users
• Hands-on tutorials and workshops to help you get the most out of AI tools
• A supportive community where you can share your experiences, ask questions, and get feedback from others who understand the unique challenges of modern motherhood.

My goal is to empower moms to take control of their time, simplify their lives, and focus on what matters most – their families, their well-being, and their passions. By joining the Modern Motherhood Meets AI community, you’ll become part of a dynamic group of women who are shaping the future of motherhood and AI together.

The Verdict

Using AI as a mom? Absolutely not cheating. It’s smart, practical and freeing.

AI isn’t about doing less; it’s about being more efficient and present. It’s about giving yourself the tools to navigate modern motherhood. So, don’t hesitate to lean in to AI – make life easier, not harder.